Harmel (Dr. Mel) Deanne Codi, JD, MBA, MDiv

Nervous-System-Aware Financial & Identity Strategist

Helping women over 40 feel safe, calm, and confident with money — without pressure, shame, or overwhelm.

With over 25 years inside banking, finance, compliance, and healthcare systems, I help women rebuild their relationship with money by addressing where financial stress actually lives: the nervous system and identity.

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THE PROBLEM

Money stress isn’t about intelligence, discipline, or willpower.

Many capable women feel anxious, frozen, or overwhelmed around money because their bodies learned money through instability, pressure, or survival — not safety.

Until your nervous system feels safe, no strategy sticks.

THE SOLUTION

My work blends:

  • Financial logic and real-world systems
  • Nervous-system regulation
  • Identity repair and emotional integration

This approach allows clarity to replace fear — and sustainable wealth to follow.

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FEATURED PROGRAM

Money Safety Lab for Women Over 40

A private monthly membership designed to help you feel grounded, regulated, and confident with money — before budgets, plans, or big decisions.

Inside the Lab:

  • The Money Safety Reset (foundational program)
  • Weekly teachings and grounding practices
  • Replays and self-paced access
  • Supportive community without pressure
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AUTHORITY SNAPSHOT

I spent my first 10 years in healthcare, earned a law degree and MBA, and spent the next 25 years auditing and managing risk inside banking, insurance, and mortgage systems. 

I understand how money systems actually work — and why people struggle inside them.

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ABOUT DR. MEL

Call-To-Action

You don’t need more hustle.

You need a calm foundation.

👉 Start With Money Safety